“96% of students [aged] 9 to 17 with Internet access have used social networking technologies.” (Grunwold Associates)

“64% of teens post photos or videos of themselves online and 58% post information about where they live.” (Teen Research Unlimited)

“69% of teens regularly receive messages from people they don’t know. Most do not tell an adult, and 31% say they usually reply and chat.” (Teen Research Unlimited)

Hanging around the playground, mall or coffee shop these days comprise only a fraction of a young person’s socialization locales. In fact, youth culture has transformed its surroundings into a space where there are no defined boundaries. With the advent of the Internet and beyond, children and teens can gather and communicate virtually almost anywhere and at any time.

If it were solely their friends they actually spoke, IM’d, or texted with, parents’ biggest challenge would be enforcing time limits while dealing with the always-enjoyable eye rolls, “aw, c’mon”s and other pleas for time extensions. Alas, it’s not quite as simple as the days when hogging the landline phone every night set the stage for constant battle.

The good news is that there is no need for a battle over your children’s social media use. Take an active role in creating the experience that is right for your family. GetNetWise has compiled a list of online resources that will help get you started.

The other thing to remember these days is that a lot of kids aren’t simply using social networks on their computers. The shift is rapidly moving toward mobility which means that kids are accessing MySpace, Facebook and sites like them on their wireless devices.

Talk to your kids and discuss these important safety reminders with them and encourage them to come to you with questions or a situation they are unsure about:

• Be mindful of posts, messages, pictures etc. Social networks are public spaces. Don’t do or say anything that you wouldn’t want your parents, teachers, potential college admission counselors or strangers to know about.

• Be wary of who you allow as a “friend.” If you don’t know the person in real life, then you can’t really be sure that they are who they say they are. Sites like MySpace can only do so much to ensure that someone is the age and the person they claim to be. It’s important that kids understand that they cannot fully trust someone they do not personally know.

• Report harassment or inappropriate content to the site and/or the authorities. Tell your parents about it if you’re not sure what to do.

Beyond protecting your kids from the potential hazards of social networking, it’s good to remember that this is simply a technologically advanced way for your offspring to connect with their friends. When kids practice good Internet and wireless behaviors, they can fully enjoy the experience. From harmless chatting with friends to playing games to joining social, community or service clubs, there is a wealth of entertaining activities for all. You might even think about setting up your own profile and joining in the experience – though don’t be disappointed if your kids don’t want to be your online friends!